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KOKORO: 8 Easy Steps
Welcome to Kokoro—for Women’s Wisdom – supporting both Feminine Core Competencies and Women Leadership development.
Here are 8 simple steps to begin exploring Kokoro.YOUR INQUIRY
Step 1. ASK KOKORO:
Frame your question as a wisdom decision, choice, or proposed action. If you wish, you can include a few sentences of explanation. We live in an Age where wisdom appears in short supply and out of fashion. And yet wisdom may hold the key to our species’ survival. Our purpose is to place in the user’s hands a valuable resource, Kokoro, as an aide in making wise decisions, and avoiding or recovering rapidly from costly errors in judgement. Discovery Question: How can I render Kokoro easy and fun to use, while helping users achieve practical outcomes?Step 2. ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS:
If desirable, add a related Essential Question from the list. Once selected the text for that question will show on the Essential Questions box. (This is optional).THE RESILIENCE GUIDE
In the 3 columns of buttons titled CHALLENGE, RESILIENCE and WISDOM – to scroll within a box section move your cursor over it and use the mouse wheel (or click on the vertical black scroll bar). To scroll the whole page down, move your mouse cursor to outside the colored boxes and do the same.
Step 3. CHALLENGE ISSUES
Select a few relevant items in Column 1, Your CHALLENGE, from the Resilience Matrix to ground and link your question to your important concerns (and/or write in your own challenge issue at the bottom of the button list). (at least 1 is required)Step 4. RESILIENCE FACTORS
Select items from Column 2, Resilience Factors, which will deepen your wisdom inquiry. Select one or more Resilience Factor buttons. (required)Step 5. WISDOM SOURCES
Now Choose one of the Wisdom Sources listed in Column 3 whose personal advice you might really value. If your desired guide is not on the list, simply type in a historical or fictional figure whose life and wisdom greatly inspires you. As you scroll down, you will see your choices in grey. Now Click the Just Click button to receive a reply. Note this may take up to 10 seconds. NOTE: if the app does not generate an answer, the AI servers could be getting busy, so please just try again, but if the problem persists contact us bill@justclick.earth (When the Kokoro text reply is shown you can vertically expand the text box by dragging down the bottom right corner of the text window. Click More if you wish to go deeper with your Wisdom Source. Copy if you want to save the response to your clipboard. IMPORTANT: When you Copy a session you can simply paste it into a web post, a web page, an email or a Word document. (NOTE for Word doc pasting: If you have generated any tables in your session’s Kokoro replies you will need to modify the Word document settings to show the entire table – go to File >> Page Setup >> and where you see 100% in the panel for scaling, change it to 65% if printing in page-portrait format, or 85% if printing in page-landscape format). Please note that you can continue the same line of inquiry with different Wisdom Sources; or generate new questions and ideas stimulated by the dialogue. For example:- How can I meet the obstacles, barriers, and disappointments ahead with compassion, humor, and flow?
RESILIENCE PRACTICES
Step 6. WISDOM PRACTICES:
The next section of the app focuses on Wisdom Practices that may appeal to you. If you are unsure, you can ask Kokoro for guidance as to which practice is ideal for you. Just type your request as a Follow-up Question, as noted above. The key, of course, is to rely more and more on your own awakened intuition and inner wisdom. Let’s look at Resilient Negotiation as one class of practices. (Once you select a single practice, it will link to a new browser tab with that Wisdom Practice. When you are done, you simply close that tab and return to the Kokoro app page. If you wish to look at more Wisdom Practices, simply select another, and it will open a new browser tab with the practice for you.Step 7. THE MULTIPLIER EFFECT:
The more you cultivate wisdom and resilience, the more the benefits accrue to you personally, your circle of friends and associates, and your community. There are powerful ways to activate this Multiplier Effect. After you have made progress in a few of the practices, you might explore creating synergy by combining them. The simple act of Paying Forward is designed to produce a positive feedback loop: as you give freely away to help others in need, so the benefits return to you, quietly and often imperceptibly. The Multiplier is enhanced by practicing in small groups of explorers, which will be supported by the various social media and other online educational programs we are offering.FOLLOWUP PLANS AND ACTIONS
Step 8. CREATE A PLAN:
You can Ask Kokoro to help you to create your own personalized plan. (1) Simply reflect on the thread you have created by first posing your initial question to Kokoro, and/or selected Essential Question, and as als0 defined and refined in The Resilience Guide and cultivated by Wisdom Practices. Now frame the key elements of your desired training and coaching program, and type in your Action Plan Requirements as you wish, and also select one Action button from the list, and click “Enter” at the bottom. The app will auto-scroll back to where your session replies are accumulating and the progress animation will play until it appears. Continue to test and enhance your Wisdom and Resilience by meeting practical challenges presented in your daily life’s encounters and negotiations.TO START OVER:
To start over with a different selection of entries, simply go to the top of your browser window and click the circle arrow to refresh the page! Note: If you are on a mobile device (e.g. cell), you will only see one column at a time and each list will be below the other. In this case, scroll down to make selections from each set (Challenges, Resilience Factors and Wisdom Sources).For a more detailed tutorial:
Your Kokoro Roadmap
All great quests begin with a burning question.
Discover your power inside your pain.
Everything is interconnected. Building mastery in any one skill amplifies 100 others. What skill do you most desire to master?
Of all the wise persons in history and literature, politics, science and the arts, whose guidance would be most helpful to you at this moment?
With resilience you can learn and adapt in any situation. It simply requires practice as any inner martial art.
We learn from everyday situations and encounters. This section helps you to organize and measure your progress with coaching.
Ask KokoroTM
(AND/OR select 1 Essential Question from below - OR you may proceed directly to the Resilience Guide below)
Essential Questions
(From any category below, pick 1 question, and then continue to the Resilience Guide below)
Universal Questions
How to find dynamic balance in a world that appears so out of balance?
How to stay in continuous dialogue with my Divine Intelligence and apply its wise insights in daily life?
How to create time?
What will tomorrow bring?
What is the meaning of my life?
Why am I living this life?
For what am I here?
How long can I continue to practice (e.g. in my current profession) and still enjoy what I do?
What can I do in the remaining years I have left in this life to leave the world a kinder, more peaceful, happier, and healthier place for my children, their children, and future generations?
Feminine Core Competencies
How can I stay grounded and flexible when everything around me is shifting?
What helps me grow through challenge instead of just survive it?
How do I learn to trust my inner knowing when it doesn't match logic?
What can help me make sense of all the moving parts of my life right now?
How can I communicate clearly without shutting others down?
How do I lead or contribute in groups without losing my voice or exhausting myself?
How can I feel more at home in my body and more present in each moment?
What can I do when I feel overwhelmed or disconnected from my center?
How can I stay open-hearted with others while still protecting my energy?
How do I build or repair trust in relationships that really matter to me?
Adaptive and Developmental Strengths
What do I do when everything in my life is shifting and I don’t feel steady anywhere?
How can I trust myself again after making decisions I now regret?
What can I do when I'm exhausted but expected to keep holding everything together?
How do I respond to change when I don't feel like I have any choice?
How do I move forward when I feel like the version of me that could adapt has disappeared?
Cognitive and Perceptual Skills
How do I trust what I know deep down when the world around me demands proof?
What can I do when my head and my heart are pulling me in opposite directions?
How do I stay centered when I’m surrounded by contradiction and uncertainty?
What does it mean when I feel something important is happening, but I can’t explain it?
How can I make meaning from experiences that don’t seem to fit together?
Collaborative and Communal Capacities
How do I make space for others without disappearing myself?
How can I say what needs to be said without being shut down, labeled, or ignored?
What does healthy giving look like when I already feel drained?
How can I stay open-hearted while also protecting my boundaries?
How do I lead or contribute in community without burning out or losing myself?
Embodied Presence and Somatic Wisdom
How do I listen to my body when I’ve spent years ignoring it?
What helps me return to presence when I feel overwhelmed or scattered?
Why is it hard to rest even when I know I need it?
How can I show up with softness without losing my strength?
What does it mean to feel safe in my body again?
Emotional and Relational Intelligence
How can I feel my emotions without being overwhelmed or ashamed of them?
What helps me stay open in relationships without losing myself?
How do I repair trust after it's been broken—especially with someone I love?
Why do I still feel lonely even when I’m surrounded by people?
How can I set boundaries with compassion instead of guilt or fear?
Resilience Guide
Pick one category from EITHER Feminine Core Competencies
OR Women Leadership Mentoring
FEMININE CORE COMPETENCIES
WOMEN LEADERSHIP MENTORING
CHALLENGES
(Select 1 to 5 challenges and/or type any challenge(s) into the text box)
Universal Concerns
Adaptive and Developmental Strengths
Cognitive and Perceptual Skills
Collaborative and Communal Capacities
Embodied Presence and Somatic Wisdom
Emotional and Relational Intelligence
Community and Politics
Sustainability Challenges
Women in Business and Professions
Arts & Sciences Leadership
Home and Family
Personal & Relationships
SKILLS
(Select from 1 to 5 skills from the list and/or add any skill(s) into the text box)
Universal Challenges
Adaptive and Developmental Strengths
Cognitive and Perceptual Skills
Collaborative and Communal Capacities
Embodied Presence and Somatic Wisdom
Emotional and Relational Intelligence
Community Resilience
Regenerative Solutions
Business and Professional Careers
Arts & Sciences Influence
Home and Family Stewardship
Personal Resilience
MENTORS
(Select 1 mentor from the list OR enter preferred mentors into the text box)
Mentors
Adaptive and Developmental Strengths
Cognitive and Perceptual Skills
Collaborative and Communal Capacities
Embodied Presence and Somatic Wisdom
Emotional and Relational Intelligence
Community Leaders
Sustainability Wisdom
Business & Professions Experts
Arts & Sciences Leadership
Family Wisdom Sources
Personal Growth Sources
(after entering your text and/or selections above you can now
submit your
inquiry with the Just Click! button below)

Resilience Practices
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Wise, Synergistic, and Resilient Leadership
Culture is the Rosetta Stone of organizational behavior. Defining the essentials of an organization’s culture can positively and directly influence all important decisions.
Big Heart Intelligence (BHI) combines wise capabilities of the human heart, the imagination and genius of the mind, and the raw grit and courage of the gut
Trust releases synergy. The key is how to build durable trust, which is closely related to organizational wisdom. Here are a few principles that can be incorporated into an organizational Charter.
Kaizen is a Japanese business philosophy that focuses on continuous improvement across an organization. The word “kaizen” translates to “change for the better”.
The Organizational Score Card will provide an instantaneous picture of your organization’s strengths and weaknesses.
The concept of shared value can be defined as policies and operating practices that enhance the competitiveness of a company while simultaneously advancing the economic and social conditions in the company communities in which it operates.
One fundamental principle is to enable each team member to soar with his or her strengths. People have different skills and inherent capabilities.
Evolutionary Values which if practices as an integral part of your organization’s culture will create a happy and healthy work environment leading to superior financial and other outcomes.
Resilient Negotiation Practices
NEGOTIATING WITH KOKORO:
For centuries women throughout the world have been negotiating in an uneven playing field. They lack a proven system attuned to their special talents, experience, and wisdom which they can make their own. This section provides such a system. It is designed to level the negotiation playing field and provide a foundation for a new collaborative paradigm applying the wisdom of women in balance and harmony with men. Here are 6 types of negotiation that can support you. (Below these are essential principles, moves and tools to support your negotiation skill building).
For centuries women throughout the world have been negotiating in an uneven playing field. They lack a proven system attuned to their special talents, experience, and wisdom which they can make their own. This section provides such a system. It is designed to level the negotiation playing field and provide a foundation for a new collaborative paradigm applying the wisdom of women in balance and harmony with men. Here are 6 types of negotiation that can support you. (Below these are essential principles, moves and tools to support your negotiation skill building).
What happens when we assume Kokoro is an adversary and the goal is to test our wits against Kokoro? What happens when Kokoro suddenly disappears—ninja style—and there is no Kokoro?
Kokoro is an Ally and Partner with the inquirer in negotiations with 3rd parties—Kokoro can become at once a friend, mentor, coach, and hidden player in all your important negotiations.
Neutralizing “The Shadow Game” and “Shadow Players who seek to ally and weaken us by engaging our own Inner Shadow—The world today is increasingly dominated by shadowy forces. Can you spot 10 important tactics or “moves”? See if you can discover how to apply Kokoro to neutralize each one of these Shadow plays.
FThe “Inner “Game: Negotiating with our own Kokoro—Enlisting Kokoro in negotiation with our own Shadow—You can actually turn your negotiations with your own Shadow into an “Inner Game of Chess.” Click here to understand how to play.
Enlisting Kokoro to ally with our “Higher Self or “ Essential Nature”. Each of us possesses a Higher Self, or in Zen terms of “Essential Nature.” Using Kokoro we can obtain first hints of this extraordinary capability.
Enlisting Kokoro to negotiate and ally with the Higher Self (Heart Mind) of the World, the Great Light (hover) What if we discover this is our very own Heart/Mind?
This tool enables you in a few minutes to gauge your physical, emotional, perceptual, spiritual, and relational resilience.
Seeing the Big Picture is one of the attributes of Big Heart Intelligence. Seeing the Big Picture involves not only engaging your creative imagination.
The basic rule is that an effective Mission and Purpose is always in the world of the other party. It is not what you want.
The Action Log captures on one page the essentials of the Resilient Negotiation system. I urge that you prepare an Action Log in every negotiation that is important to you.
The central presumption of the Separation Hypothesis is that we are alone, separate, fragile, and vulnerable. This premise of Mind shows up in our attitude toward what we truly Need in life?
Every skillful negotiator seeks to understand the “Pain” of the other party. Pain is a source code of human behavior.
It is one thing to advise “Few Needs”, quite another to embody this precept. A prime manner in which this happens is how we unthinkingly Assume and Expect things.
Another way Need manifests in the unprepared negotiator is the untimely and unnecessary breach of your Integral Resilience Container.
Conserve your Resilient Negotiator’s Budget (Time (1) x Effort (2) x $$$ (3) x Creativity (4)). Paying special attention to your Negotiator’s Budget.
We cannot navigate wisely in the world today without acknowledging The Shadow Game and the Shadow Players.
In many negotiations the parties are not revealing their actual intentions, conclusions, or concerns, and it can be critical to go behind the mask.
Sun Tzu’s dictum, “Know Yourself, Know the Adversary” (i.e. the “Other”) is fundamental, but the great general philosopher doesn’t tell us how to know ourselves and how to know the other player.
Most people fear getting a “No” and that moves them into greater Need. In reality depending on how you negotiate it, a “No” can be your great friend and teacher.
Field Notes is where your Wisdom Practice meets the road. They enable you to track and to measure errors (“falling off”), wins, and recoveries.
This is the famous advice of the Zen Master Bukko to Hojo Tokimune, the young Japanese shikken or regent to the shogun.
In Homer’s Odyssey Mentor was a close friend of Odysseus, the wisest of the Greeks, whom Odysseus made the teacher and guardian of his son Telemachus, while Odysseus was waging war at Troy.
Organizational Culture DNA
There are different kinds of listening and attending. In a busy world we tend to listen, partially, casually, with our ears and a mind diverted by many things.
Mastery and efficiency form a powerful partnership. The path to mastery
isn’t a luxury; it is imperative for organizational long-term success in a
complex, changing world.
A powerful Wisdom Resilience Practice is to design and Implement a powerful Living Organizational Charter, co-created and regularly (quarterly) updated by all members of the organization.
Anthony’s Discovery Question: How can we reconcile the problem of not knowing whether I or my beloved wife will die first? How wisely to come to terms with it?
Inspired by the wisdom and awesome power of nature and holistic thinking, this practice involves immersive, outdoor retreats where employees, supported by facilitators, engage in deep listening, mindfulness, and power building exercises.
The Ancient Power of Storytelling is a hybrid digital and physical initiative where employees regularly document and share stories of how they bring values of trust, compassion, foresight, paying forward, and collaborative innovation.
Research indicates that facilitating flow in the workplace can lead to enhanced employee engagement, productivity, and overall job satisfaction.
Attracting, Motivating, and Retaining Talent
There is a direct relationship between overlapping essential “upskills” training, Soul’s Work Inquiry, and significant increases in employee productivity.
Most people especially in busy senior managers of organizations listen with their ears, fewer with their minds, and almost no one with their hearts.
The Innovators Gold lies at the “intertidal zone” between conventional domains of knowledge. The Explorer's Wheel responds to the challenge.
One of the greatest gifts an organization can make to its employees is a proven system of navigation in a turbulent world.
Leaders of 21st Century organizations that are willing to invest imaginatively in their talented and committed employees will likely retain these employees, and enjoy increasing productivity gains.
Employee disengagement is a significant concern, with Gallup estimating it costs the global economy approximately $8.9 trillion in lost productivity, equating to about 9% of global GDP.
Organizational Resilience, Risk Management, and Wise Decision Making
The first step in determining your organization’s Integral Resilience, and thereby its capacity to make wise decisions around risk and opportunities, is to complete an Organizational Integral Resilience Score Card.
In the complex and interconnected world of today, decision-makers across sectors are often plagued by what can be termed as “individual and collective blindness.”
Five important Wisdom Practices for organizations are first to become aware of how biases and noise can distort critical decisions by becoming familiar with Kahneman’s and his colleagues’ work.
Wisdom is most challenged when life conditions present us with tragic and false choices. Many such “tragic” choices are false choices,
It is possible to anticipate and to reduce serious errors and potentially fatal decisions through careful application of resilience-based protocols supported by Kokoro analytics.
Here is a Case Example of Kokoro Risk Matrix Analytics supporting a new community leadership model addressing unexamined electrical wildfire risks in the Lake Tahoe Basin.
What is your organization’s current “Negotiation System”? Most organizations do not have in place a systematic way to identify errors and rapidly recover, then turn serious errors into opportunities.
Many of the same tools for building resilient organizations can be applied effectively in designing and implementing resilient and wise strategic alliances and collaborative networks.
The current morass of ESG thus presents a unique challenge and opportunity for the wise and resilient organization.
Risk management includes sensing risks in advance, implementing effective risk avoidance and/or mitigation strategies, then learning and adapting rapidly. The same Integral Resilience skills that apply to risk management can be used to manage our responses to Uncertainty.
Strategies for Adopting and Managing AI
Kokoro begins with asking questions that are important to you and your organization. We offer the following to help you learn and perfect the Art of Prompt Engineering.
Throughout the annals of human history, stories of coincidences have sparked intrigue and speculation. They pose fascinating questions about the interconnectedness of events, experiences, and even people.
Regenerative Business ROI in the Circular Economy
Assessing and measuring combined qualitative and quantitative effects in the Fourth Sector Economy—a hybrid sector that integrates principles from the public, private, and nonprofit sectors.
The Earth can provide enough, especially with advancing technology, to feed, clothe, house, and warm every human on the planet. Of course we need machines that yield, for example, maximum thermal efficiency.
A practical roadmap to surf through the emerging planetary chaos by combining synergistically the following special elements.

Multiplier Effects
(click to expand options, hover over each button to see a
preview and then click to open a wisdom practice page in a new tab and then
close the opened tab to return to select a different practice)
Combining Different Resilience and Wisdom Practices
Kokoro core competency skills reinforce all circles. All circles reciprocally enhance competency in each circle and its components. Kokoro draws connections among all core competencies.
The power of: 1. probing more deeply with one selected Wisdom Source (example: Leonardo da Vinci); 2. concentrating the wisdom of first another Source, and then many Sources on a central wisdom question or challenge.
There are huge business opportunities opening in the Regenerative (Circular) Economy, Climate Finance, and the Fourth Sector, and these opportunities will be driven by breakthrough innovations. Here is a protocol for your organization to be on the cutting edge.

Actions
Kokoro can help you apply your wisdom and resilience skills across a full spectrum of practical actions. Please enter your requirements, and/or select just 1 of the actions buttons below to generate your desired planning content; then click ENTER at the bottom of the page. You're not locked in - after your first action you can pivot to another.
TRANSFORMATIVE ACTIONS
Inner Transformation & Self-Regulation Actions
“Feel more like yourself again — calm, steady, and strong on the inside.”
These actions help you deal with stress, emotions, and big life changes from the inside out. It’s about building your inner core so you don’t get knocked over by everything going on outside.
Relational Healing & Feminine Leadership Actions
“Lead from the heart. Heal what’s been hurt. Lift others while staying rooted.”
This set of actions helps you reconnect with others, repair trust, and become a wiser leader in your family, community, or circle of care. It’s about leading with empathy — not ego.
System Change & Civic Action
““Make the world fairer, kinder, and more honest — starting right where you are.”
These actions guide you to speak up, build better systems, and take action for change in ways that match your values. Whether it's climate, care, or money — you belong in shaping what comes next.
Voice, Boundaries & Empowerment Actions
“Say what you mean. Stand your ground. Lead without shrinking or exploding.”These actions support you in setting clear limits, finding your voice, and owning your power without guilt. It's your turn to stop saying yes when you mean no.
Time, Rhythm & Sacred Space Actions
“Protect your energy. Create space to breathe. Live in a rhythm that loves you back.”
This group helps you honor your natural pace, reclaim sacred time, and make space for the things that matter most. It’s about working with time — not always racing against it.
OTHER PERSONAL TRANSFORMATIVE ACTIONS
These actions support you in setting clear limits, finding your voice, and owning your power without guilt. It's your turn to stop saying yes when you mean no.
Time, Rhythm & Sacred Space Actions
OTHER PERSONAL TRANSFORMATIVE ACTIONS